There were boxes of old books in the parking garage today, marked “FREE!”, with that musty smell and slick dust feeling. We dug through them, hugging the discoveries to our chests. The tip of my nose starting twitching, the usual reaction to things that have been sitting forgotten on a shelf for too long.
One of my most treasured memories is standing in Uncle C.E.’s office about 2 months before he passed away in 2005. He had a fantastic library of books, especially first editions of Baha’i books that I’d never seen before. He showed me pictures of his family from 50 years ago, told me about his childhood, and watched me as I carefully pulled one book off a shelf, then another.
I just remember looking around at him, sitting in his leather chair, smiling at me. His health at that point was not good, but we did not know that he would die of cancer so soon after. No one did. As Carmen and I drove away from the house, we started crying…something told me I would not see him in this world again.
We were family, even though there was no blood relation. He took a few pictures of Carmen and I in the garden: “Stand there…smile!” I got those pictures later from Aunt G., and cried when I saw them. He loved us so much…asking questions: “What are you doing next? Are you looking for jobs? Ten years from now?”; and telling us that he was proud of us. Telling us kids to take care of each other…sometimes I feel like I’ve failed at that one. The 5 of us are scattered across the globe.
Every time I stopped by his office while I was in school, he would ask me how my schooling was going, if I was studying enough (probably not!), and he would just look at me and I would want to try harder, do better.
I miss him. If this was a piece of paper, the ink would be running off the page right now.
Sholeh, this is a truly beautiful tribute. I have no doubt he’s still watching over each one of you even now. 🙂
He is still proud of you.
i felt the same way whenever he looked at me…he had an intensity in his eyes that was palpable. he was truly a remarkable person. we’re lucky to have known caswell 🙂
its a beautiful thing how finding and reading old books can evoke such powerful memories. Stimulating our tactile and olfactory senses.
Digital media is never a substitute for paper and ink.
I’m sure your uncle is shedding a tear for your wonderful testimony to him in this blog.