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	<title>Sliding Thoughts &#187; Family</title>
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		<title>My response to Ahmadinejad</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Sep 2011 18:07:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sholeh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nicholas Kristof of the New York Times interviewed the President of Iran, Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, and one of the questions he asked was about the persecution of the Baha&#8217;is in Iran (which I haven&#8217;t seen much from other recent interviews, so thank you, Nicholas). Ahmadinejad&#8217;s answer, as with most of his interviews, was to slide around [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://topics.nytimes.com/top/opinion/editorialsandoped/oped/columnists/nicholasdkristof/index.html" target="_blank">Nicholas Kristof</a> of the New York Times <a href="http://kristof.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/09/21/an-interview-with-mahmoud-ahmadinejad/" target="_blank">interviewed the President of Iran</a>, Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, and one of the questions he asked was about the persecution of the Baha&#8217;is in Iran (<em>which I haven&#8217;t seen much from other recent interviews, so thank you, Nicholas</em>). Ahmadinejad&#8217;s answer, as with most of his interviews, was to slide around the question by asking more questions and being very vague.</p>
<p>Ahmadinejad implied that Baha&#8217;is are possibly a political or intelligence security group, that they break the law, and then brought the American hikers into it at the end. The entire answer was ridiculous, and shows how little logic enters the equation when it comes to human rights in Iran.</p>
<p><em><strong>Ahmadinejad:</strong> Do you even know the group that you name? Do you know their makeup? Are they a religious group? A truly faithful group? Or a political group? Or an intelligence security group? Let’s make sure they are all named? Let’s make sure they all come forward. Let’s see their true makeup.</em></p>
<p>Sir, the Baha&#8217;is of the world have never tried to hide. We have always been exactly what we claim to be: followers of a peaceful religion that abide by the laws of the countries in which we live, who are endeavoring to foster community life and bring about peace. In every part of the world, you will find Baha&#8217;is doing all of these things openly, with love for their fellow human beings.</p>
<p>Since the very beginning of our Faith, <a href="http://iran.bahai.us/" target="_blank">the Baha&#8217;is have been persecuted</a>, imprisoned, tortured, killed, banned from education, removed from their homes, and had property confiscated and destroyed. Our holy places in Iran have been razed to the ground, and our graves desecrated.</p>
<p>My great-uncle and his son were <em>put to death because of their faith</em>. I have never been to the country of my mother&#8217;s birth, it is my lost home. I love Iran, and I have never been there. Think of how great Iran could be if you let all of these innocents live freely, if you let children be educated whose only aim in life is to serve humankind.</p>
<p>There are Baha&#8217;is in prison at this moment whose only transgression is to try to help their fellow human beings, for believing in the same God that you believe in. There are many minorities in Iran who suffer, for no purpose except fanatical hatred and fear on the part of the government and clerics.</p>
<p>This is the true crime.</p>
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		<title>The flight home</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 May 2011 01:50:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sholeh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In my last post I told the story of my adventures in mud on the way to my grandfather&#8217;s funeral in March. Well, my grandmother gave my sister and I some of Granddaddy&#8217;s tennis racquets. The one I was given had a wood frame around it to keep it from twisting from the force of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my <a href="http://sholeh.calmstorm.net/blog/archives/2416" target="_blank">last post</a> I told the story of my adventures in mud on the way to my grandfather&#8217;s funeral in March. Well, my grandmother gave my sister and I some of Granddaddy&#8217;s tennis racquets. The one I was given had a wood frame around it to keep it from twisting from the force of the strings, and it is probably around 40 or 50 years old.</p>
<p><a title="Granddaddy's tennis racquet by Sholeh, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sholeh/5766822420/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2320/5766822420_018039fd9d_m.jpg" alt="Granddaddy's tennis racquet" width="160" height="240" /></a>I arrived at the airport about an hour before my flight, but when I went to the counter to get my boarding pass I was informed that my flight is delayed. Also, since I only had a carry on, I couldn&#8217;t fit the racquet into the suitcase, so the racquet had to be my carry-on and I had to pay $25 to check my suitcase. The gate agent felt sorry for me and upgraded me to economy plus.</p>
<p>As I had several hours to kill, I wandered around the Atlanta airport with my gigantic purse slung over my shoulder and an odd-looking tennis racquet in my hand. Now, I find it a bit strange that I can&#8217;t take water or a miniature Swiss army knife on a plane, but a tennis racquet with a solid wood frame bolted onto it doesn&#8217;t get a second glance from security&#8230;</p>
<p>Anyway, I had so many random conversations with people because of that racquet. Most of them were older folks who remembered playing tennis with a racquet like that when they were kids. I know I must have looked rather strange with that thing, riding the transit system and placing it carefully on the seat next to me where ever I was.</p>
<p>I am lucky to have a lot of paintings that my grandparents created, but I don&#8217;t have a lot of personal items from them, and it felt nice to have that racquet with me, almost a companion in my travels.</p>
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		<title>final thoughts</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Mar 2011 14:11:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sholeh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This weekend is our time to gather. Remember what he was, once upon a time.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This weekend is our time to gather.</p>
<p><a title="the cowboy and the baby by Sholeh, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sholeh/5496462539/"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5178/5496462539_348d58a77d.jpg" alt="the cowboy and the baby" width="500" height="399" /></a></p>
<p>Remember what he was, once upon a time.</p>
<p><a title="Richard Loehle by Sholeh, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sholeh/5496465285/"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5011/5496465285_7916d3aec5.jpg" alt="Richard Loehle" width="354" height="500" /></a></p>
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		<title>Goodbye, Granddaddy</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Feb 2011 01:03:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sholeh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On Monday night I received a call at 10 pm that my paternal grandfather, Richard Loehle, had passed away. He was 87 years old and was a successful artist and writer from Georgia. My home is full of his paintings and those of my grandmother Betty. They met in art school in the 1940s in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On Monday night I received a call at 10 pm that my paternal grandfather, Richard Loehle, had passed away. He was 87 years old and was a successful artist and writer from Georgia. My home is full of his paintings and those of my grandmother Betty. They met in art school in the 1940s in Tennessee, lived in Chicago and Georgia, and supported their family of 4 children through <a href="http://loehleart.com/" target="_blank">their art</a>.</p>
<p>I was about 1 month old in this photo with my grandparents. Since I was the first grandchild, I received a lot of attention from them.<br />
<a title="1 month old, with my grandparents by Sholeh, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sholeh/5449926458/"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4082/5449926458_b0b8007daa.jpg" alt="1 month old, with my grandparents" width="500" height="339" /></a></p>
<p>When I was little, we lived 3 hours away, so I had many opportunities to spend time with them. In this photo, I am with my grandfather in the family room of their home.<br />
<a title="having a conversation by Sholeh, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sholeh/5449925796/"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4079/5449925796_c3bdf126f0.jpg" alt="having a conversation" width="500" height="324" /></a></p>
<p>Granddaddy taught me how to build things, and he loved explaining how things worked. I remember when he and my dad built a swingset for us in our backyard, taking walks in the forest behind their house, and catching turtles and crawfish in the creek.<br />
<a title="teaching me how to build by Sholeh, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sholeh/5449317783/"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5057/5449317783_840817d87a.jpg" alt="teaching me how to build" width="500" height="345" /></a></p>
<p>Granddaddy was a tough man who lived through the Depression and World War 2, a descendant of German immigrants. He played the trombone in high school, which I then played for a year because I wanted to play the same instrument. We would get into lively discussions about all sorts of topics, from art to books to religion.<br />
<a title="Rest in peace, Granddaddy. by Sholeh, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sholeh/5449926962/"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4143/5449926962_d1cf00885f.jpg" alt="Rest in peace, Granddaddy." width="500" height="334" /></a></p>
<p>Rest in peace, Granddaddy.</p>
<h6><em>(all photos taken by my mother, Neda)</em></h6>
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		<title>Joy and sadness</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2011 16:20:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sholeh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A gathering of souls, meeting to discuss the future, full of excitement. You can see what the world might look like one day, if we strive hard enough. News of my great-aunt&#8217;s passing at the age of 94. Maryam Saniei Firouzi, wife and mother of martyrs, servant of the Faith, loved by her entire family. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A gathering of souls, meeting to discuss the future, full of excitement. You can see what the world might look like one day, if we strive hard enough.</p>
<p><a title="lens flare by Sholeh, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sholeh/5435980297/"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5014/5435980297_98df26c1ae.jpg" alt="lens flare" width="500" height="301" /></a></p>
<p>News of my great-aunt&#8217;s passing at the age of 94. Maryam Saniei Firouzi, wife and mother of martyrs, servant of the Faith, loved by her entire family. I was able to visit her a few weeks ago, and I know she is now reunited with her family, so my sense of sadness is overtaken with joy that she has been released from this life.</p>
<p><a title="2011-02-08 17.29.32 by Sholeh, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sholeh/5435980385/"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5019/5435980385_7feb01ae21.jpg" alt="2011-02-08 17.29.32" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p>The sun is finally shining today. Accomplishment in my tasks, the week isn&#8217;t over yet but I know that it is all perfect, no matter what.</p>
<p><a title="white sand by Sholeh, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sholeh/5436589960/"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5054/5436589960_eeffff692f.jpg" alt="white sand" width="500" height="333" /></a></p>
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		<title>A little late for Ayyam-i-Ha&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:38:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sholeh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was talking to my hilarious, beautiful cousin Sahar J on the phone a few nights ago (she lives in New York City), and as we talked about how we celebrated Ayyam-i-Ha this year and how the fast is going so far, she mentioned that she has this amazing photo from an Ayyam-i-Ha party in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was talking to my hilarious, beautiful cousin Sahar J on the phone a few nights ago (she lives in New York City), and as we talked about how we celebrated Ayyam-i-Ha this year and how the fast is going so far, she mentioned that she has this amazing photo from an Ayyam-i-Ha party in Cardiff by the Sea.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4027/4404159146_9a84a75c5c_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter" title="click to see larger" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4027/4404159146_6f6fe21438.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="338" /></a></p>
<p>Of course, she is the little girl holding the bat, waiting to hit the pinata.  I love so many things about this photo&#8230;the &#8220;One Planet, One People&#8230;Please&#8221; t-shirt, the kid in the glasses who looks like he is going to throw something, the little boy in the checked hat, the guitar-playing guy in the background.  Most of all, I love the look on my cousin&#8217;s face as she waits to attack that pinata.</p>
<p>Her smile is a bit more mischievous now, but it isn&#8217;t any less adorable!  Thanks for sharing this, Sahar.</p>
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		<title>Thank you, mom</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 03:46:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sholeh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[we were always on an adventure there were forests to explore, caverns deep underground the swimming pool every day in the summer the country back-roads, boiled peanuts on the way to Charleston the city streets of Chicago and fireworks at night every single road trip that took us to 40 states homemade dinners and giving [...]]]></description>
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<p>we were always on an adventure<br />
there were forests to explore, caverns deep underground<br />
the swimming pool every day in the summer<br />
the country back-roads, boiled peanuts on the way to Charleston<br />
the city streets of Chicago and fireworks at night<br />
every single road trip that took us to 40 states<br />
homemade dinners and giving me a love for cooking<br />
middle of the night conversations by the fireplace<br />
and middle of the day conversations by phone<br />
we are always on an adventure<br />
and for that, I am so grateful.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone" src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v92/fireflyinthecity/Blog/image-777.jpg" alt="" width="261" height="185" /></p>
<p>I love you.</p>
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		<title>Here I go!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 05:19:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sholeh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is something about traveling&#8230;airports, the unknown, the things that my eyes see that are different from everyday life.  And for the life of me, I can&#8217;t seem to pack in advance&#8230;so I find myself trying to consolidate everything into a suitcase at midnight.  I might have managed, and will have to be content with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is something about traveling&#8230;airports, the unknown, the things that my eyes see that are different from everyday life.  And for the life of me, I can&#8217;t seem to pack in advance&#8230;so I find myself trying to consolidate everything into a suitcase at midnight.  I might have managed, and will have to be content with what I&#8217;ve done.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sholeh/3021548342/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3154/3021548342_d85a94b369.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="173" /></a></p>
<p>I am going to attend a wedding that I am ecstatic about.  I am going to see friends, both from my service at the Baha&#8217;i World Centre and from closer to home.  I am going to stay with my cousin, who is eerily similar to me and who I am very excited to spend time with.  Most of all, I will get out of Chicago for a few days, which is exactly what I need.</p>
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		<title>memory boxes: 3</title>
		<link>http://sholeh.calmstorm.net/blog/archives/1192</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2008 17:26:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sholeh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Georgia in the springtime Magnolia trees Bell the hound dog Southern charm and art galleries Tennis and the swimming pool Bell was a bad-tempered dog.  I mean, we grew up together, in some ways, so she wasn’t too mean to me, or maybe she sensed that in my innocence, I would pamper her.  She always [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;">Georgia in the springtime<br />
Magnolia trees<br />
Bell the hound dog<br />
Southern charm and art galleries<br />
Tennis and the swimming pool</p>
<p>Bell was a bad-tempered dog.  I mean, we grew up together, in some ways, so she wasn’t too mean to me, or maybe she sensed that in my innocence, I would pamper her.  She always ran ahead when Granddaddy took us for walks, and would loops back around, nearly knocking me over and scaring me half to death in the dark woods.</p>
<p>My southern accent disappeared, but it struggles to come out from hiding when I am with these relatives.  Natives of Alabama, Tennessee, and Georgia, half of the family still has the Southern roots strongly grounded in the soil…atheistic roots, for the most part, which made things interesting at times.</p>
<p>Granddaddy and Grandmommy met in art school after World War II, and they made a living on their art throughout their lives.  Granddaddy did illustrations and portraits, Grandmommy painted landscapes.  Our home is filled with their paintings and drawings.</p>
<p>The creek and trees behind their house used to be a dark, cool place full of mystery, but housing developers turned that magical place into a sad stand of pine trees as I grew older.  We caught crawfish and threw them back, and I will never forget my awe at a tire wrapped around a big old tree.</p>
<p>Everything in their house has been in the same place for the last 40 years.  I can still remember where the phone books are, the cereal, the board games, and the cookie drawer.  The furniture is in mostly the same configuration in their ranch home on the top of the hill.</p>
<p>We would play with the neighbor’s kids, and in the summers go to the neighborhood pool, where Grandmommy swam and Granddaddy played tennis.  They did this into their 80s.  They had their 50th Anniversary in the clubhouse there.</p>
<p>Dinner table discussions could almost be guaranteed to turn into a minor debate or intellectual discussion of some kind.  I mostly learned to hold my own, but have never gotten over my dislike of contention, and so did not enjoy them as much as others may have.</p>
<p>I can’t draw.  A cousin recently told me, “This monkey does NOT look like a monkey.”  Hey, best I could do, kid.  I didn’t inherit the ability to capture life on canvas.  My uncle taught me to whistle through my teeth and quack like a duck…thanks for passing on those skills, they’ve been quite handy.</p>
<p>Great-uncle and great-aunt had a wonderful house near a swamp, with a small barn and horses.  Great-aunt would let us ride the horses around the field, and I always felt so loved in their home.  When they passed away, I mourned them in quiet silence.</p>
<p>Grandmommy painted in the basement, and sometimes I would sneak down the long stairs to sneak looks at unfinished paintings, the bright oil paints smeared on painting boards and brushes, and the pile of animal skulls in the corner that my uncle collected in college.</p>
<p>We always came into the house through the kitchen door.  The front door hadn’t been used in so long that there were giant cobwebs around it.  Everything was always casual…I don’t remember any sort of formality in all the years we visited.</p>
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		<title>memory boxes: 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Oct 2008 18:11:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Minnesota I was born in a hospital on the Mississippi River…but I don’t remember that part of my Minnesota story.  When I was one year old, we left this state, but it has always been a second home, on account of my Persian family members living here. There was a thunderstorm one night that shook [...]]]></description>
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<p>I was born in a hospital on the Mississippi River…but I don’t remember that part of my Minnesota story.  When I was one year old, we left this state, but it has always been a second home, on account of my Persian family members living here.</p>
<p>There was a thunderstorm one night that shook the walls of my grandparent’s apartment.  We all gathered in the hallway, and I remember being scared but strangely exhilarated.</p>
<p>Persian food.  Always a table nearly bending under the weight of platters of rice, khoresht (stew), and the dozen or so side items that go along with such a feast.  The women of my family really know how to cook.  Food is the central activity that makes a family go round.  Grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins all in a friendly chaotic shuffle around the extended tables, taking turns in different homes.</p>
<p>We are a mixed family…at least 4 different countries are represented in the 24 individuals that comprise this group.  I love it.  The half-English, half-Persian language that is created in the stories and translations is so normal and comforting.   The generations of the Baha’i Faith within our family go back to the mid-1800s, and also began in the present day.  The extended family has more than 200 members.</p>
<p>Babajoon has a lot of random sayings and advice, and most of my enduring memories of him are of him sitting in a corner with a thick book and his glasses low on his nose.  He would make up songs about putting our seatbelts on in the car, and he is the person from whom I have inherited my social personality.  He knows everyone.</p>
<p>We picked fresh grape leaves in the park, and Mamanjoon taught us to make dolmeh (stuffed grape leaves), her hands deftly wrapping the edges around and neatly placing them in the pot.  Mine still don’t look like hers.  Maybe I will be able to do it in 50 years…I just need practice.  She taught us how to sew, starting with sewing buttons on pieces of scrap cloth.</p>
<p>I learned how to dance (Persian style) in the living rooms of my aunts’ homes.  I learned how to cook in my mother’s kitchen, and how to make kabob koobideh (ground meat on a skewer) from a few different relatives over the years.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter" title="Minnesota sunset" src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v92/fireflyinthecity/SSL20373.jpg" alt="" width="372" height="280" /></p>
<p>My cousins and I were bundled into coats so thick that we could barely move, and told to play in the snow by the swing set.  The swing set is gone now…it was a hazard even when I was young.  In the summers we would be pushed around in the go-cart my cousins built, or take walks around the neighborhood.</p>
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